ABOUT MY SESSION
The world’s greatest body rub experience is not about sex – it is about making you feel great about yourself! It is about making you feel loved and appreciated. There will be a lot of physical touching, stimulation, arousal, and an orgasm, to be sure, but none of these are memorable! If you want an orgasm, you can give one to yourself quite easily. In fact, most men give themselves one every day. What you can never give yourself is the feeling of love and appreciation.
You want a wonderful body rub experience with a beautiful woman who will be attentive, appreciative, understanding, loving. You will never remember the Happy Ending – the orgasm; rather, you will remember how I made you feel as a man.
The emotional component is ten times more important than the physical components. John Gray in his book “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” points out that the number one thing a man wants from a relationship with a woman is to be treated as competent. A wife should say things like, “Honey, you did a brilliant job mowing the grass; you did a fantastic job fixing the washing machine; you were so smart fixing that leak.” A man wants that more than he wants great sex!! You are probably the same!
I am not just in the body rub business. I am also in the emotional support business. I am a therapist, a counselor, a psychologist, a psychiatrist; I am with you to listen and to be emotionally supportive.
Our time together will of course involve intimacy, but will really be about much more than that. It will also be about me giving you the attention you want, the time listening to you that you want, the appreciation that you want, and the sensuous touches that you want. I want to make you feel like a million dollars on multiple levels – as a romantic interest, as a friend, and finally as a sex object! Perhaps you will want to reciprocate!
MY TWO SESSIONS COMBINED ONE AFTER ANOTHER:
I provide two separate types of body rubs, all in one session: near-therapeutic (60 minutes for a session that lasts for an hour and a hour as well as for a session that lasts for two hours) and dermal stimulation (12 minutes for an hour and a half session; 20 minutes for a two hour session), During these two sessions, I add three teases: a strip tease, a nipple tease, and a genital tease.
The First Session, the Therapeutic Session, is designed to relax the muscles of the body – ALL the muscles of the body. The Second Session, the Scratching Session, is designed to stimulate the middle layer of the skin – ALL the skin of the body.
SESSION 1: NEAR-THERAPEUTIC BODY RUB:
Let me briefly describe each of the three body rub types. The first body rub is a near-therapeutic body rub. I cannot call that a massage because I am not licensed yet. Only a licensed professional can provide a true therapeutic massage! And Backpage has a special place for those licensed professionals to advertise. I imitate the style of those professionals. I imitate their techniques -- kneading, rolling, etc. But I provide body rubs, not massages.
I use light tissue body rubs instead of deep tissue body rubs. Why do I use light tissue instead of deep tissue? First, I do so because human bodies prefer light tissue over deep tissue. You are probably an older (45 to 75) professional gentleman who is either retired or working in executive positions. You likely do not have sore muscles that need to be relaxed. You probably have the same exact stress on your body that your secretary has – stress from being at a desk in front of a computer all day. You are probably not a blue-collar worker like a carpenter or roofer. You probably are not a sports athlete. A deep-tissue body rub leaves most human bodies sore for one or two days, yet provides little to no actual sensuous pleasure – that is, a deep-tissue body rub does not please the sense of touch. .
You likely crave human touch. You likely prefer soft, sensuous touches over firm kneading. Many professional, licensed spas deliver extremely deep tissue massages that often leave clients sore for one or two days afterward. My clients hate that! My clients prefer soft, loving, gentle touches. (And often lotion takes away the intimate feeling of skin on skin touches, so I use very, very little lotion.)
Second, a deep-tissue body rub is hard on a provider’s hands, and causes them to be more concerned with their own pain than with your comfort. Many such providers develop carpal tunnel syndrome, arthritis, and other work-related injuries over time. My session is easy on my hands! I go from light tissue to an even lighter scratching session to a super light fingertip session. I will be just about as relaxed during our time together as you, so I am able to focus my attention solely on you.
Because I use a light touch for the light-tissue near-therapeutic body rub, I usually find I do not need any lotion at all. Certainly I can never use any on your neck/head/face. Likely, you do not have any sore muscles in your arms, and thus I probably will not need to use any lotion on your arms/hands/fingers. This is true of your legs/feet/toes as well. That means that the only place where I will be tempted to use any lotion is on your back and buttocks. You can feel the softness of my skin, and I can feel yours.
Where do I start my body rub?
Most professionals have a system. That system is pretty much the same for all professionals, with individual variations and nuances. Professionals divide the human body into sections. The most common division is six parts as follows: 1. neck/head/face; 2. right arm/hand/fingers; 3. left arm/hand/fingers; 4. right leg/foot/toes; 5. left leg/foot/toes; 6. back and buttocks. As each division is completed, the massage therapist "summarizes" that division. For a proper 60-minute session, each division receives 10 minutes of attention (9 minutes of massage attention followed by a 1-minute summary).
I follow that system. Like most professionals, I divide the neck/head/face division into distinct subparts: lower neck muscles, upper neck muscles, scalp, temples, forehead, bridge connection, jaw muscles, chin muscles, lip muscles. I start a session with you lying on the table with your face toward the ceiling. I stand at the head of the table and start by relaxing your shoulders and upper back muscles (2 minutes) then I do a “scalp body rub”.
Now the face body rub starts in earnest. I move on to your jaw muscles – which are the strongest human muscle as measured by weight. Then the chin and lip muscles.
Then it is time to begin the second division – your left arm/hand/fingers. When moving from one division to another I will make sure I keep at least one hand, and preferably two hands, on your body at all times. I will either glide them over your body from one division to the next, or I will lift them one at a time, letting the first one land before lifting the second one. This is called CONTINUITY.
I will repeat the same process for the other arm/hand/fingers division. When switching from the second division (left arm/hand/fingers) to the third division (right arm/hand/fingers), I will be sure I keep at least one hand, and preferably two hands, on your body at all times. I will either glide them over your body from one division to the next, or I will lift them one at a time, letting the first one land before lifting the second one. (CONTINUITY)
The third division will be a mirror image of the second division. And I will follow the exact same process that I followed for the first! PREDICTABILITY. You will know exactly what to expect! (10 minutes)
When I move on to the fourth division – your left leg/foot/toes (maintaining CONTINUITY) – you can almost predict what to expect: a sequence very similar to the second and third divisions (PREDICTABILITY). In other words, I will do your legs/feet/toes just like I did your arms/hands/fingers.
I have now finished the fourth division – your left leg/foot/toes, and now I am ready to move onto the fifth division – your right leg/foot/toes. Of course, I will maintain CONTINUITY. And you should be able to precisely predict what to expect: an exact mirror image of what I did to the fourth division – your left leg/foot/toes (PREDICTABILITY). (Total of 10 minutes. Add 10 minutes to that if I do the before and after hot towel compresses.)
And now we move on to the sixth and final division (maintaining CONTINUITY). The back consists of the upper back, the middle back, and the lower back. Let's not ignore the butt; that is where the most powerful muscles of the body – the upper leg muscles – connect to the main pelvic bone. That area is always knotted and needs attention.
Finally the rest of the muscle groups found there need attention. Every human being on the face of the planet loves a great butt massage!! (You have probably predicted this: 2 minutes on the upper back, 2 minutes on the lower back, 2 minutes on the legs, 2 minutes on the butt, and a 2-minute summary.)
Not counting the separate identities of each finger and each toe, there are some 20 separate areas to address, plus the 6 summaries. Add the fingers and toes and there are really 40 separate areas. True professionals hate to conduct a session in less than a full hour because each area barely receives a minute of attention.
SUMMARY:
2 minutes on the upper neck muscles,
2 minutes on the scalp,
5 minutes on the face,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion session. (10 minutes elapsed)
2 minutes on the upper left arm,
2 minutes on the lower left arm,
5 minutes on the left hand,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 20 minutes)
2 minutes on the upper right arm,
2 minutes on the lower right arm,
5 minutes on the right hand,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 30 minutes)
2 minutes on the upper left leg,
2 minutes on the lower left leg,
5 minutes on the left foot,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 40 minutes)
2 minutes on the upper right leg,
2 minutes on the lower right leg,
5 minutes on the right foot,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 50 minutes)
2 minutes on the upper back,
2 minutes on the lower back,
2 minutes on the legs,
3 minutes on the upper leg muscle connections and the butt muscles,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 60 minutes)
Every part of you body wants different levels of pressure, I must ask you questions! That requires an exchange of information. If you really want the restaurant to prepare your meal the exact way you want it prepared, you will need to exchange that information with the server. They can not guess what you want and they do not have any special ESP powers. It is the same between you and I: an exchange of information is the best way to get the body rub pressures you want.
SESSION 2: THE DERMAL SESSION (SCRATCHING):
After that near-therapeutic, muscle-relaxing body rub, let's move on to the dermal stimulation body rub. This session is designed to stimulate the middle layer of skin. That is much easier to do than it might sound! And in fact you have done it to yourself every day of your life, and your significant other has probably done that for you a few times as well. It is as simple as a scratch. But try to convince her to scratch your body all over – 100% – and you'll find it an unlikely scenario.
But that is exactly what I do. In this 2nd type of body rub, I go back over all 6 divisions, all 20 subparts, all 40 sub-subparts, once again – with a gentle scratching technique. A scratching session of the whole body is one of life’s grandest pleasures.
Remember, this is a gentle scratch – no marks!! If you want more pressure on certain areas, just ask for more pressure (i.e., just say “scratch harder, please!”). I will not leave any physical marks – just emotional traces!!!!
It is time to begin the Final Session of our time together – the Erotic Session.
BODY RUB HAPPY ENDING:
Every woman will provide a body rub to at least one man during the course of her lifetime that includes a traditional Happy Ending using her hands. Gals on Backpage become "experts" at that type of Happy Ending. And in fact you have probably given yourself many Happy Endings!
Most gals follow one of two "techniques": 1. they ask the gentleman how he masturbates himself and they try to imitate his "technique", or: 2. they just use some sort of up and down "rub and tug" "technique". I emphasize the word "technique" because in reality most gals do not really follow any systematic process that could really be called a "technique".
I prefer to follow the "GEISHA GIRL" technique of providing a prolonged, erotic Happy Ending. The chances are pretty good you have never visited a real Geisha Girl in Japan and thus you probably have no idea of what I am talking about. I would love to provide a ten-page description of a proper Geisha Girl Happy Ending, but Backpage censors such descriptions very, very heavily so I cannot do so on Backpage. That is why I have created this Webpage. (In fact, I can not even use the words “Happy Ending”, “Head”, “Hands”, and many other simple words on Backpage because those words are censored!)
And I won't go into long detail over the phone to describe a Geisha Girl Happy Ending -- too many guys are simply trying to masturbate themselves while I give the description over the phone. So I will try to describe a Geisha Girl Happy Ending to you.
I offer two different kinds of Happy Endings: Traditional or Geisha.
For a Traditional Candian Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that you use your hands when you provide your own Happy Ending to your own masturbation sessions. In order to do this, I will need to ask you how you do this part when you are by yourself! If you use your right hand when you pleasure yourself, then I’ll use my right hand standing at your right side so that my hand is in the same position your hand would be in. If you use up and down motions with pressure on the downward motion, I will do the same. If you add a twisting motion, so will I. Perhaps you can show me a stroke or two! I will try to do as you would do unto yourself!
For a Geisha Japanese Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that the Geisha Girls of Japan use their hands when they provide Happy Endings to gentlemen. It is extremely unlikely that you know what this is – unless you have been to Japan!! This Geisha type of Happy Ending is radically different than a Traditional Happy Ending usually given in the United States.
A Geisha Girl spends a considerable amount of time and effort diligently applying different techniques of an exquisitely erotic and sensual nature to the most private part of your body in an intelligent, thoughtful manner. A Geisha Girl keeps 2 hands on the gentleman’s genitals at all times, with both hands doing different things.
Usually, one hand strokes the shaft of the penis in upward/downward motions, sometimes with a gentle twisting motion, and using various degrees of pressure. This hand may extend down and caress the testicles from time to time, as desired, but never extends upward enough to touch the head of the penis.
The other hand focuses solely on the head of the penis at all times. This hand explores the head of the penis much like your hand explores a clitoris and /or vagina – which is to say, with extreme interest! Sometimes the fingertips form a circle around the crest of the head, sometimes just one fingertip circles the crest. Sometimes the fingertips go up and down like an octopus. Sometimes the entire hand closes, using various degrees of pressure from time to time.
Then the unexpected element of playfulness enters in. You have probably played with a woman’s clitoris during the course of your lifetime. You have probably rubbed your fingers up and down, side to side. You have twisted it, pulled it, tugged it, and even strummed your fingers across it. You absolutely loved playing with that clitoris. Don’t you wish you had a woman who would absolutely love playing with your penis as much as you love playing with a clitoris?
As the moment for the ultimate explosion nears, the hand stroking the shaft of the penis increases pressure and intensity and speed, while the hand attending the head of the penis forms itself into the shape of a vaginal opening. Your penis will think it is pumping in and out of a vagina!
When you give yourself a Happy Ending, you probably follow the same exact routine each and every time, with no experimenting. You probably use the same hand in the same location using the same kind of stroke and the same amount of pressure. And when you visit a gal for a Happy Ending, she probably follows her own way of providing a Happy Ending – or perhaps asks you how you do it.
But it would be an extremely rare event for a woman to really, really focus her love and attention on your penis the way that you have loved and attended a clitoris!! And no matter how much you might want to lavish your own love and attentions on your own penis, you can not do so. It would never feel good! You can not tickle yourself. No one can. You can only be tickled by someone else. The same is true of what I am trying to describe! Only another person can give your penis the kind of love and attention I am describing!
And as good as that description may sound, I know this: you’ll have a lot of personal favorite things! So tell them to me. I want you to have the best Happy Ending you can possibly have!
I do not have a video that shows me providing a Happy Ending. But I have found a video that I like, so I'll give you the cite so you may watch for yourself:”
http://xhamster.com/movies/1309574/the_best_cock_massage.html?s=6
A lot of clients have asked me if the gal in the video is me. When I say it is not me, they ask for a description of the differences between her session and mine. This is how I respond:
No, that is not me in the video. That is an actress! Our sessions are similar, but different.